Ladies, You Want To Be Respected? Someone Else Did, Too. His Name Was HITLER.

If you wanted to know why women are evil harpies hell-bent on destroying America, this graphic will help you. -

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When Told You Can't Do Something, Just Remember This Beautiful Clip

Lovely music, a simple yet powerful concept, and a surprise ending really make this clip magical and an inspiration for women all over the world. 

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3 Things I Wish Id Done Differently When I Came Out As Transgender

When I was hired for my first office job a few months after graduating from college, I was still in deep denial about my gender identity and was presenting as a stereotypically feminine woman.

When I realized a year later that I really wasnt a woman and needed to transition, I was stuck in an awkward, but not that unusual position.

There are a few guides out there for coming out at work as transgender, but the ones I found were limited in scope and assumed a binary transition.

As a nonbinary transgender person, I struggled with how to present myself and how to come out.

Despite my best efforts to prepare, I botched some parts of the process, but others went smoothly.

If I could do it all over again, heres what I would do differently:

1. I would be clear about gender and pronouns.

Im a nonbinary person, which made coming out particularly tricky.

While nowadays most people know about trans men and trans women, a lot of folks are still unfamiliar with the concept of being nonbinary or genderqueer.

I had to decide if I wanted to come out as a nonbinary person and use ze/zir or they/them pronouns, or if I wanted to come out as a transgender man and use he/him pronouns.

I told the first few people that I came out to at work that I was nonbinary.

More than one of my coworkers expressed support for my transition to male, but looked confused when I tried to explain that I identified as neither male nor female.

I quickly realized that for me, it wasnt worth trying to explain the concept of nonbinary or to teach everyone new pronouns in my professional life.

I wish that I had just told people from the start that I was a transgender man and avoided some of the confusion.

Unfortunately, were often faced with only two boxes: male and female.

Trans man isnt my identity, but its a much more accurate and comfortable identity for me than cisgender woman.

That said, I have nonbinary friends who have successfully come out as nonbinary and advocated for they/them pronouns.

Ultimately, you have to consider the best way to represent your identity in a way thats comfortable and authentic, all while still being practical professionally.

2. I would pick a better-fitting name.

Picking a new name that fits with your gender can be a very daunting process.

The first name I picked was a gender-neutral variant on my old name.

I liked it a lot, but people often mispronounced it.

Even worse, they assumed it was a feminine name.

It wasnt much of an issue in my personal life, as people listened when I corrected them, but it was much more frustrating at work.

Next time, I would pick a name that clearly fit the image I wanted at work, which for me was unambiguously male.

If youre not sure about how a name fits or how strangers will react to it, you could try it out by using it at coffee shops.

Youll get to see how you feel when your name is called, and you can figure out the common mispronunciations, if any.

Your employer will probably need to keep your legal name in your records (until or unless you legally change it), so that the company can pay you and report your income to the IRS.

Even so, your employer should be able to use your chosen name for your email and other communications that take place outside of HR and payroll.

3. I would make a plan for communicating my new name and pronouns.

This was my biggest mistake.

While I worked with my coworkers and supervisor to ensure my new name and pronouns were communicated appropriately within the organization, I never put together a plan to tell all of our contacts at other companies.

I regretted this through the rest of my time at the organization.

When I left, some people were still referring to me by feminine pronouns, even though my coworkers and people who met me more recently used he/him.

I should have worked with my supervisor to devise a plan to communicate my name change and, where appropriate, pronouns to those outside of the organization.

If youre coming out at work, Id encourage you to work with a trusted supervisor, coworker or HR contact to discuss how your transition and new name and pronouns should be communicated to your contacts.

This may be helpful for your boss or HR to read, if you feel comfortable sending it their way.

Coming out at work wasnt a complete disaster, though.

There were a few things I did in the process that I would absolutely do again:

1. I talked with the people I was most comfortable with first

Coming out at work can be scary because you often dont know how everyone will react.

I decided to ease into it by coming out to the coworkers I was most friendly with first.

While this could have potentially backfired if one of my coworkers was transphobic, I had spent the months before testing the waters by seeing how they reacted to casual mentions of gender and sexual orientation issues that came up in the news and popular culture.

Theres no way to be entirely sure how everyone will react, but it made it a lot easier to come out to my supervisor and then my supervisors supervisor knowing I already had a couple of coworkers on my side.

2. I came out after I had been dressing consistently masculine for six months and had started hormone treatment.

Consistent presentation helped me a lot.

Even though in my personal life my style is a little more gender-ambiguous, I decided to present in stereotypically masculine fashion at work for over six months before I came out to my coworkers.

I also started hormone treatment prior to coming out, which increased my confidence and helped me look less feminine.

While gendered norms of appearance can be tiring and potentially oppressive for transgender people, I did my best to use them to my advantage to ease the coming out process.

For me, it felt more natural to slowly shift into wearing mens clothing and presenting in a more butch fashion before coming out as transgender.

That said, my approach was what worked best for me, but other trans people might be more comfortable with a different approach.

One of my friends, who is a transgender woman, came out to her employer before she changed her work wardrobe.

After coming out, she continued presenting mostly masculine until a specific date, after which she markedly switched to presenting very feminine.

She found this approach more comfortable and safer for her than if she had started wearing dresses or obvious makeup before coming out to her boss and coworkers.

Either way, its important to remember your medical transition is your personal business.

You dont have to be on hormones to come out as transgender, and youre under no obligation to tell your employer where you are in your medical transition.

3. I checked state laws and organizational policy.

Before coming out, I did some research into anti-discrimination laws surrounding gender identity.

In Massachusetts, its explicitly illegal for employers to discriminate on the basis of gender or gender identity.

There is also precedent set by the courts that discrimination against trans employees is covered by Title VII, and is therefore illegal*.

While this doesnt mean its impossible to be fired or not hired for being transgender, this information did give me a little more peace of mind.

My company was quite small and only listed gender, not gender identity, in their nondiscrimination policy.

However, many larger companies may list gender identity or even have specific policies regarding transgender employees.

Overall, my gender transition at work was really awkward, but not terrible.

I stayed at the organization for over a year and a half after coming out, and no one ever made a fuss about it.

I do want to acknowledge that I did have several advantages that not everyone has when coming out at work.

I worked at a relatively liberal nonprofit, I lived in a relatively liberal city and I was transitioning to male and could reasonably pass as male after several months on hormones.

Not everyone will have the same advantages, and its important to consider your safety when considering whether to come out in the workplace.

If youre in a position where you feel that you can come out, I wish you the best!

Coming out is a big step, but if its safe for you to do so, it can help you lead a happier life, both in and out of work.

*I am not a lawyer, and this should not be construed as legal advice.

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It's Reassuring To See That Judges Who Blame Victims Aren't Always Getting Away With It

It outraged people everywhere when a judge let a rapist high-school teacher off with a 30-day sentence for raping a freshman student (a student who subsequently killed herself), saying that the victim “looked older than her chronological age.” It outraged his bosses, too. They censured him, which is a public and official condemnation of his sentencing, and they also suspended him. While this super-short video may seem a bit uneventful (it is a court proceeding, after all), what it signals for rape culture is important and should be shared.

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This Is What Happens When Creepy Sexist Men Try To Take Away Women's Rights In The Dark Of Night

By now you’ve heard the story of Wendy Davis, the senator who stood up to powerful interests, giving a voice for the millions of women across our country who are having their rights stolen from them at exponential rates. Here’s how she rallied the voices of the voiceless to shut down a state legislature and light a fire under all of our feet to protect a woman’s right to control her own body.

Her shoes and your voices kept her standing. You could share this and help her continue standing up for everyone. Up to you.

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I Wish I Could See The Look On The Taliban's Faces When Malala Revealed What Scares Her

This is what it sounds like to be the youngest-ever Nobel Peace Prize winner.

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Most Celebrities Promote Products They Like. Ellen DeGeneres Is Not Most Celebrities.

A few months ago, Ellen DeGeneres discovered that Bic was making a line of pink and purple pens designed to fit delicate lady hands. In response, she issued a scathing, hilarious smackdown. I am absolutely delighted that she didn’t stop there.

Well, folks, it looks like the original YouTube video has been removed, which is a total drag because Ellen gave us some certified #RealTalk about the most needlessly gendered items. Like, ever. In the meantime, though, since Ellen is basically the heavyweight sexism smackdown champion of the world, be sure to check out her takedown of gendered pens. Yep, you read right. That is indeed a thing. Sigh.

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Twitter had a field day with the glaring lack of women in this photo.

On September 14, 2015, Vanity Fair tweeted … this.

The “titans” of late-night comedy pulled on their most dapper suits and enjoyed a few stiff ones for a Vanity Fair photo shoot.

The accompanying article, which is titled, “Why Late-Night Television Is Better Than Ever,” appears in the magazine’s October issue. It focuses on the state of comedy after dark and the recent influx of host switch-ups. Boy oh boy (literally), it looked like a lot of fun.

But a glaring oversight caught readers’ attention: How can late night TV be “better than ever,” yet still lack a single female host?

Of the 10 comedians featured in Vanity Fair’s spread, three are named James, but zero are women. And, while we’re at it, only two are people of color, and none are LGBT.

Although we may love our Jimmys, let’s admit it: Late-night television (and comedy in general) has a bit of a white male problem. This, although still disappointing, is not news. It’s the status quo.

Two Jimmys for the price of one. Photo by Kevin Winter/Getty Images.

So how can we call this new era in late night the “best yet while the genre has failed to produce a single show with a woman behind its desk?

To be completely fair, the Vanity Fair article itself even points out how absurd it is that, still, there’s not one woman steering a late-night ship:

“How gobsmackingly insane is it that no TV network has had the common sense and that’s all we’re talking about in 2015, not courage, bravery, or even decency to hand over the reins of an existing late-night comedy program to a female person?”

Fortunately, Vanity Fair’s “better than ever” assertion didn’t go unnoticed on Twitter.

It didn’t take long for tweets to start filling news feeds pointing to the lunacy of late night’s boys club. Some were hilarious, others dropped some serious truth bombs.

Like Mark Harris, who can read minds.

And Sebastian Nebel, who experienced some serious side effects.

Kristy Sammis, who wasn’t outraged.

And James Poniewozik, who pointed out this makes the GOP look progressive.

Mogul, who said what we were all thinking.

My own editor, Rebecca Eisenberg, who highlighted a detail many had overlooked.

Jordan Holmes, who pointed to an obvious biological reason.

Anita Flores, who needs a time machine ASAP.

And Samantha Bee, who will helm her own late-night show starting in January on TBS, responded with a flawless correction:

Despite there being plenty of qualified women out there, not one has headlined a late-night program since 1986.

More and more women in comedy are breaking down barriers (why, hello, Mindy Kaling), tearing up at the box office (I’m looking at you, Amy Schumer), producing some of the funniest shows on television (enter Tina Fey and Amy Poehler), and proving that, yes, audiences can appreciate a woman being funny after dark (shoutout to Chelsea Handler). But after Joan Rivers became the first female late-night host on a major TV network in 1986, no other woman has sat in a similar seat.

Photo by Michael Buckner/Getty Images for Turner Image.

We should expect more of “the best time in late night comedythan a photo spread featuring (almost) all white and exclusively male comedians. It is 2015, after all.

Here’s to hoping the next late-night spread looks a little bit different from this one.

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